Friday, April 24, 2009

Tug of War

So here we go again.....not so much drama than just mixed emotions.....sometimes guys just don't get it.....and they never will....coz i guess if u tell them what you really feel ....they won't be able to handle it and end up taking the easy way out....down route 55 onto the highway....they always tend to hear what you say (to them just a bunch of random words put into a sentence) but are never actually listening....sometimes talking bout things just doesn't solve anything....you can tell a guy a million times that a certain something they do annoys you or upsets you but they inturn hear what you say through one ear and out the other.....on the other hand .....if a guy says something that you do bothers them....they make it a point that if they repeat what they said more than two times then YOU DON'T LISTEN!!! I mean hello....people is there something wrong with this.....or is it just me!!

In a fair world, women would be treated like queens....and men would listen....fact of the matter is life is sooooo unfair....so don't expect any fairytale endings girls....

I feel that women are so much more willing to compromise than men are.....a good friend once told me....men's brains are like a solid piece of metal....cannot be moulded or changed.....and woman's brains are like dough....so in other words we're more flexible....but hey that's no excuse for men to get their way all the time....i mean sure there are some things a women could compromise if and only if the guy is worth it.....but if compromises are one sided then seriously there's no point....i think i mentioned that in one of my previous posts....don't want to repeat myself.

Another weird thing i discovered.....is that when you give a guy too much attention they tend to blow you off.....ignore a guy and they come running after you....i call this a "mind game".....which is so unneccesary.....i mean can't we just simply be nice! Is it too much to ask?!?.....anyhow...moving on...strangely enough....you always tend to get attention and the princess treatment from someone you remotely have no interest in....Are we attracted to the wrong people...i wonder...

Truth is....men and women are in constant tug of war....its a power struggle really.....but nobody wins in the end....1+2=3 in a womens world but equals 12 in a mans world!.....their expectations are just too high....they fail to realise they're just not perfect either!!

5 comments:

m-a-n-x said...

I really love the way you write...:D

maybe we are attracted to the wrong people! seriously thats true.

mwaa

Lalloosha said...

thnx babes....maybe or maybe we're all doomed forever...hehehe now thts being optimistic for ya:P

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Knight said...

I disagree with the concept of girls being more compromising than guys. Some people compromise, and some don't...it has nothing to do with gender...